Mail Day & Birthday =]

3 weeks later, here comes another "Mail Day" post which is a bit special as it also includes some Birthday mail that I got in the past week :) 

The letters that I got in the last 3 weeks. They come from: Croatia, The Netherlands, Ireland, The US, Spain and Malaysia. 

Here is a special B-day mail from my dear and lovely Twinsie. Thank you girl, I love you deeply <3.

And lots of birthday mail & Presents... A big thank you to all of you who remembered my birthday and even sent me some lovely pressies. Thanks to: Anne, Twinnie, Pierre, Carole, Marina, Manuela and to Tom + his family. (and I am sorry I didn't put everything on the picture, I was in a rush when trying to locate everything in the same place ^^)

Being Busy #101

As you may have noticed, I haven't been updating my blog in the last 2 weeks. I'm really sorry as I know some of you are really missing some of my posts, especially the Mail Day Monday ;) Well, I'm not giving up on it, I have just been really busy lately and trying to get used to my new life.

I have to organize things differently and it's taking me a bit of time to figure out how to do as many things as I used to in a very limited amount of time. But I'm still pretty confident that I'll find my way into it and I'll be back to blogging in NO time ;)

You should read me again very soon my dear followers!

Mail Day =]

I know it's not Monday and I also know that there wasn't a Thursday's Music this week but things are changing in my life so the days I post on this blog are going to change as well.
New life, new schedule, new organization. As I don't know if I'll find the time tomorrow to post what was in my mailbox, I am doing it today so that you don't miss it.

So, what did I find in my mailbox this week?

2 nice postcards: one is from Romania (I got it from a swap on P&L Forum) and the other is from Texas, from a penpal of mine :) 

And those are the stamps on the US postcard, very lovely :)

I also found 5 amazing letters from: Denmark, Germany, Spain, Italy and Croatia. 

And some mail went out to various destinations. You can see 2 envelopes with a decotape style #tryingoutnewthings. 

See you soon :)

Penpals philosophy 101

I will try to make this not too long as I don't want to bore you with some philosophic/psychologic questions but still, I think this is a very interesting subject to discuss. 

One of my penpals asked me 2 questions recently about my relationships to my penpals and the way I write to them. When I started answering her, I felt like it was a really good subject to talk about and felt like I wanted to go deeper in my answers. Thus, I decided to bring up the subject on my blog between a Mail Day and a Music Day. 

Her first question was (sorry B. if I'm changing some words): Do you feel like you have the same kind of relationship with all of your penpals? 

Well, that's a very interesting question indeed. At first, you might be tempted to say "Yes of course, they are all dear friends of mine" but if you think about it, even with your real life friends, your relationship to each one of them is different. Every person is different and with that comes the fact that every relationship is different. With some people you can be joking all the time, as well as talking about more serious subjects and with others, it might be more about emotions, how you feel, what you think about a certain situation or moment in your life. 

Apart from the fact that you have known a person longer than another - let's just consider that you have met all of your penpals on the same day so there is no time issue - the relationship will be based on the first words you said and the first subjects you talked about. If you made a joke when you first contacted someone and the person was very receptive then you might use more jokes in the future with that person when on the other side you started with the music subject with someone else, then your relationship might be based on more artistic values. 

To me, every relationship had to be different because we are all different and put in pairs, we create a whole new world together. Having different relationships doesn't mean you love one person more than the other, it means you're so rich with relationship experiences that your heart is full of smiles and emotions. 

I would really love to have your opinion on this subject so do not hesitate to share it with me and the other readers in this Bubbly World. I would totally agree that you disagree with me :) 

I know I said there were 2 questions, but I'll save the second one for another post. Who knows? Wednesday might become a philosophy/psychology day ;)